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  1. When Cholo was in preschool, his preschool school teacher read the story of David and Goliath. She read the verses where Goliath invited the Israelites to send a man to fight him for their freedom. Immediately, my son exclaimed, "I will fight the giant!" He did not hesitate. He heard the request and he acted. He had no idea how tall or strong this Philistine was supposed to be, but he didn't care. He had faith and confidence. He believed in himself and his ability to conquer this giant. He was fearless. If you are like me, you face many fears and obstacles on a regular basis. Financial stress, discipline issues, medical concerns, general management of the home, marital woes, all of these, at times, seem impossible to manage. We think too much, we worry too much, we doubt too much. We lack the faith and the confidence that comes so naturally to our children. Rather than facing our fears and concerns, we often hide from them, hoping they will go away. We feel alone. We are afraid. Unfortunately, the hurdles you face won't just go away. They will linger and grow stronger the longer you hide. But let me encourage you. You can face your battles and you can win! You are not alone. Just as God helped David fight his giant, our Lord and Savior is ready and willing to help you fight yours. When you have doubts and are weak, God can give you assurance and strength. When your faith is small, God can increase it. As you seek God, not only will he guide you and support you, but he can lead you to people and places who will offer you wisdom, direction, and encouragement. There is no battle too big or too small for God. Spend time today thinking and praying about the battles you are facing. Pour out your heart to our Lord. Ask him for help. He is listening. You can have the faith and confidence of a little child. You can overcome. God is ready to fight the giants in your life! Are you ready to fight with him?
  2. Until Xyna and Cholo were born, I never really grasped the true meaning of unconditional love. From the moment I found out I was expecting, they had my heart in a way I never could have imagined. They fill me with more joy and happiness than I thought possible. Whether my time with the kids is encouraging or discouraging, my love for them grows stronger and stronger every day. I love when my kids cuddle up next to me on the couch, when they laugh, or when they tell me their funny stories. They can throw their toys across the room in anger, or tell me they are mad at me; although it may be upsetting or frustrating, my heart is still theirs. I will always be there for them, guide them, and encourage them no matter what they do or say. I will forever love and cherish them. Nothing can change that. I know you feel the same way about your children. How amazing it is that our Lord loves each of us with this same unconditional love. Just as we look adoringly at our children and smile, I believe he looks down on us from his heavenly throne with delight and adoration. It doesn't matter if we are doing everything right or if we are making mistakes, he loves us with all his almighty and powerful heart. Like our children, our actions may anger or displease our Father, but nothing can separate us from his love. He will always be there for us, teaching us, comforting us, and advising us. Is there any greater love than that? God loves you so much. When times get challenging, he loves you. When you mess up, he loves you. When you celebrate a victory, he loves you. When you experience defeat, he loves you. If you are young or if you are old, he loves you. God has and will always love you, no matter what! As you spend time with God today, reflect on the deep love you have for your children and rejoice over the deeper love God has for you!
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  4. Let us just keep praying matatapos din ang lahat ng ito. Kapit tayo sa mga pangako ng Diyos, na hindi nya tayo pababayaan at may magandang plano sya sa bawat isa sa atin.
  5. Nakakacurious, patingin din po. Salamat sa pagshare! God bless!
  6. Happy birthday po kapatid!?

  7. As a mom of a two young children, our house can be pretty chaotic. Our kitchen floor serves as a trash can. Few years ago, my kids play with every toy they own, at the same time. They view our living room furniture as an indoor playground. Wrestling is not just on TV. "Please pick up," "please stop," and "please don't hit your brother/sister" can be heard throughout the house several times a day. Sometimes I just want to run to my room, shut the door, and scream. Have you ever felt that way? Thankfully, there are also times in our home when the kids will say or do something unexpected. Xyna woke up from her nap one day, went into our living room and just started cleaning up without being asked. After Cholo broke a thing his sister Xyna cleaned up the mess before I ever saw it or vice versa. One day Cholo and I were watching a movie, and out of the blue, Cholo said, "Mommy, I love you!" These are the actions that cause the little things driving me crazy to fade far away into the background. I call these special moments my "Ahwww" moments. These are the moments that help me realize that my children really do listen to me. They are learning. They do care about others. These moments bring me so much joy. I want to encourage you to take time today to focus on the "Ahwww" moments you experience with your children. Make a list of those moments in a notebook or journal. Take out your list the next time you need a stress reliever. Thank God today for all your children are learning and for the blessings they bring you during the peace and the chaos.
  8. How many times have you asked your children to try something new only to hear, "I don't like it," "I'm scared," or "maybe later"? You serve an unfamiliar vegetable or a new casserole and they push it aside before taking one bite. You buy them a new pair of shoes, but they prefer to wear their old shoes, even though they are falling apart. You encourage them to participate in a church or school activity, but they beg you not to make them go. They are unable to grasp how great an opportunity or how good for them these new experiences might be. Often, our children choose to miss out on a potentially great opportunity. Isn't this exactly how we treat our heavenly Father? Maybe you have been asked to teach a Sunday school class, but you declined. You are happy and comfortable where you are. An opportunity to facilitate a women's small group opened up, but you don't think you are knowledgeable enough. You feel called to serve on the hospitality committee at your church, but you just don't think you have the time. It is amazing how much we have in common with our children. We say no to something before we even give it a chance. Do you have a fear of the unknown? Have you been listening to your own desires rather than the desires of our Lord? When we fail to pursue his requests, we are missing out on more than a fun experience or a healthy meal; we are missing out on an amazing opportunity to serve our precious Lord. What opportunities have you turned down recently? As a mom, I know our schedules are full. We cannot say yes to everything asked of us. However, it is important to reach out to the Lord before we say no to an opportunity to serve him. Spend time with the Lord today. Ask him where he is calling you. If you are afraid, ask him for confidence. If you lack knowledge, ask him to teach you. If you think you are too busy, ask him to help you adjust your schedule. If you choose to follow his desires, he will give you the support and direction you need. Just as we want the best for our children, God wants the best for you. Listen to him today. Follow where he is leading you. Trust in him to guide you. Don't miss out on the wonderful blessings he has planned for you as you serve him and his kingdom.
  9. Jeff and I always know when Xyna is about to enter a room. We can hear the rapid movements of her feet as she travels across the floor. It doesn't matter if she is on her way to greet us in the morning, coming to the breakfast table, or helping fetch a toy for her brother Cholo , she always travels at the same quick speed. Xyna races after life with enthusiasm and joy. She believes nothing will stand in her way. She truly lives life to the fullest. God desires all of his children to live an abundant life. Unfortunately, if you are like me, you get too caught up in your normal day-to-day "mommy duties" to think about the additional plans God has for you. You don't really race after life. You move about on auto pilot. You are happy and content, but there is something inside of you saying, "Am I doing everything God is calling me to do?" It doesn't matter if you are a homemaker or if you work outside the home, God may have a special project or opportunity waiting for you, but you haven't allowed yourself to see it. Take a moment and ask yourself the following questions. What, apart from your family, brings you joy and happiness? What do you get excited about? What do you dream about? Maybe you have dreamt of writing a novel or painting a picture or continuing your education. Maybe you wanted to learn how to sew or play the piano. Have you taken the time to go after your dreams? What is holding you back? Is it guilt? Is it fear? It is uncertainty? We are so blessed God desires an abundant life for his children. God wants to help us realize our dreams. As long as you keep God first and your family second, you should feel secure about reaching toward what God has prepared for you to accomplish. Spend time with the Lord today. Take your dreams and desires straight to him. Ask God to show you his will. Ask him to remove any obstacles standing in the way. It is time to turn off the cruise control button. Travel like my daughter Xyna, full speed ahead, into the wonderful plans God has for you. What are you waiting for?
  10. Salamat po ng marami sa pagshare.
  11. Keep in mind... The Anti Christ comes before the Rapture. I have studied the Bible a lot in my life, in many different forms and it really does always come down to this. I have been hearing about the second coming of Christ and the events unfolding since I was a kid. The "Mark of the Beast", microchips, no cash/just plastic, Martial Law, TOTAL Government dependency/control. When we are raising a family, working long hours, some two jobs, lots of things go unnoticed or just get ignored. No one can comprehend how bad it will be til it is. We have NEVER been told to stay home, quit work and rely on the Government. We are seeing a lot of "firsts" since January. Can our minds and bodies handle what's coming? Not without God - I wonder what doctor they will have on the news explaining the Rapture and the disappearance of so many people? I won’t be here for it but it’s just a thought. While the devil is preparing people for the Anti Christ, God is preparing people for the Rapture. I don’t know when the Rapture will take place but I do believe it could be soon. And I KNOW that I won’t be left behind when that trumpet sounds! I also believe right now that God is giving us a chance to repent. We need to get the Gospel message out!!! Until the Good Lord calls me away from this world to go home, I want to make it clear that I believe in Jesus Christ as the one and only True Lord and Savior. Despite the fact that I am human, and I fail a lot, I believe that Jesus is the Son of God. I believe that He came as a baby, I believe that He died on the cross as a sacrifice for our sins and that He rose from the dead on the third day and He is in Heaven preparing a place for all those who believe and trust Him as their Savior. He loves us all dearly (far more than we deserve) and forgives our sins when we repent. His Word says John 3:16 "whosoever believeth in Me, shall not perish but have ever lasting life.” The Bible also says Matthew 10:33 "But whosoever shall deny me before men, him will I also deny before my Father which art in heaven”. This is the best challenge I have seen on Facebook; so, if the Holy Spirit moves you and you’re not ashamed, just copy, and make this as your status update. Can I get an Amen for being a believer in God The Father, God The Son, and God The Holy Spirit? Amen! #thegospelchallenge 
  12. I love how excited my kids get over the littlest things. We will be driving down the road and our kids will shout joyfully, "Tractor moving!" I can bring home raisin bread from the grocery store and they cheer. My kids get the biggest smiles on their faces when they blow bubbles, go down a bumpy dirt road, or see dump trucks unloading dirt on the ground. When Cholo was about two or three years old, we were playing outside. All of the sudden he yelled, very excitedly, "Mommy, Mommy, airplane!" I looked at him with amazement at the joy he expressed over a plane he saw up in the sky. He was pointing and smiling as if he had seen the greatest thing in the world. And, to Xyna, it probably felt that way. I love how my kids delight in today rather than worry about tomorrow. I wish I could be more like them. Watching my kids embrace life reminds me how God's Word teaches us not to worry. God has promised us He will take care of all of our needs. He does not want us to get caught up in the day-to-day worries life has to offer. He wants us to enjoy life just like our children do. When was the last time you really did just that? I want to encourage you to spend a little time today thinking about the simple things that bring you joy. Maybe it is the smell of homemade bread. Maybe it is the beauty of fresh flowers growing in your garden. Maybe it is just the joy you feel when your husband gets home from work or when your children get home from school. Thank God today for taking care of you and your family and for the little blessings life has brought your way.
  13. Cholo woke me up one morning in the most wonderful way. He touched me softly and said in the sweetest voice, "Mommy, I love you." It was first thing in the morning, so I hadn't done anything to earn his affection. I hadn't made him breakfast or read him a story. I hadn't bought him anything. As I looked down at his precious face, I realized he didn't even want anything in return. What an amazing feeling. I sat there smiling, knowing without a doubt I was special to him. Isn't this a wonderful example of how we should demonstrate love for our heavenly Father? How delighted would God be to hear, "I love you, Lord," each morning before we ask anything of him? Wouldn't it please God to hear how much we appreciate him before he answers our prayers or a blessing is given? Can you imagine the joy on his magnificent face when we exhibit love in such an unconditional way? We can learn a lot from our children. I encourage you to take a few moments today to tell your little ones thank you for all they teach you. They are such blessings. Most importantly, I hope you will take time each day to tell our Lord and Savior how much you love him, not because of what he has done for you, but for who he is. No one deserves it more.
  14. Someday, when I get bigger: ♡ I am going to tie my shoes all by myself. ♡ I am going to jump off buildings like Spiderman. Yikes! ♡ I am going to wear my dad's/mom's shoes. ♡ I am going to buy a big house with a big swimming pool and lots of rooms for every member of the family. ♡ I am going to drive a big van and dad is going to sit up front with me. Mom and my sister/brother can sit in the back and we could stroll or go anywhere we would like to go! ♡ I am going to have a blue/pink bicycle. ♡ My hair is going to fall out too (like my dad's and grandpa.) Then we will both have no hair. ♡ I am going to work with my friend. ♡ I am going to buy a blue airplane and Momma can get a pink one. Our kids gets so excited when they tells us their plans for the future. They are filled with confidence and joy. Both my kids fully embrace life. They do not live in fear or trouble themselves with worry. They are happy and carefree. They believe in the hope and joy awaiting them. Isn't this exactly what God desires for all his children, and for you? He wants us, children and parents, to embrace life, without fear, trusting in him every step of the way. He wants us to experience life with hope, joy, and excitement. God does not want his children to worry or dread what lies ahead. He wants us to understand he is in control and he has great plans for each of us. Take a moment today to think about the little things your children look forward to. What are some of the things you looked forward to when you were younger? What are the things you look forward to now? What is keeping you from making your dreams come true? Spend time in prayer today. Hand over your concerns and anxieties to our Lord. He wants you to have confidence and hope in your future. God wants you to experience life with the same joy and excitement as your child. God has a perfect plan just for you.
  15. Searching for God In the mornings when my kids wakes up, I can hear the pitter-patter of their little feet as they runs through the house looking for their mama. Sometimes I will just lie in my bed, awaiting their precious arrival. I love their beautiful smile when they finds me. They are truly happy to be in my presence, and I cannot wait to wrap my arms around them and hold them close. My kids makes me feel so wanted and needed, and I want nothing more than to give them those same feelings in return. Isn't this a great representation of our God? I believe he wants us to search for him each day with the same fervor as my kids exhibits when they search for me. God desires and deserves to be sought after. He wants to bring a huge smile and joy to our lives. Just as I wait with anticipation to see my kids at my bedside, I believe God looks down from heaven and waits for us each morning to run to him. God cannot wait to hold us close. Are you searching for God every day? Does he know you desire to be in his presence? Can you feel his warmth, his love, his desire to be with you? Are you spending time with him each day? Does he know how much you love him? Do you make God feel wanted and needed? I know life gets busy, but it should never be too busy for God. Remember, he watches over you and listens for you every day and every night. He loves you so much. I want to encourage you to seek after God with all your heart. Run to him as a child runs to his mother. Think about the happiness you feel when you see your child running towards you and smiling at you. Go now! Don't wait! God will be waiting for you with open arms.
  16. You Can Admit It. You Are Tired. - It's three a.m. Your baby is hungry. You are tired. - It's eight a.m. Your child has been up sick all night. You are tired. - It's eleven a.m. You have taken one child to preschool, another to a doctor's appointment, and you need to finish the meal you are taking over to a friend. You are tired. - Not sure what time it is now, but your baby is ready to eat again. Tired. - It's four p.m. Time to straighten the house and prepare dinner. Still tired. - It's five p.m. Time to feed your baby again. So tired. - It's seven p.m. Time to get the kids bathed and ready for bed. You are really tired. - It's midnight. Your baby is hungry. You are beyond tired. We try so hard to be superwoman, but too often we end up feeling like a withered flower. We tell our friends or our husband everything is okay, even though we can hardly think straight. We feel like something must be wrong with us because we cannot do it all. Let me encourage you today: nothing is wrong with you. You are perfectly normal. But you do need to reach out to others and admit you need some help. Here are a few suggestions to help you get through those tiresome days: - Ask your husband to take a feeding shift or bring in a pizza for dinner. Sometimes, husbands don't realize we need help. They too think we can "do it all" and need a little friendly reminder that, sometimes, we can't. - Allow one of your close friends to come over and watch the kids so you can take a nap, especially if you have a newborn. Remember, they have been there and would love to help. It would bless them more than you know. - This is a hard one, ladies, but realize you do not have to have a perfect house, especially when you have a newborn. It is okay if the toys are not always picked up, the beds are unmade, or the dishes are still in the sink. An imperfect house does not make you a poor mom. Energy for your children and your husband is much more important. Trust me, your family will thank you for it. - The most important suggestion I would like to give you is to reach out to the Lord when you need an extra burst of energy. He will get you through those tough times when you don't think you can go on. He knows better than anyone how you are feeling. I am so thankful for my friends and family who have helped me along the way, especially during my early days of motherhood. I appreciate them more than they will ever know. Dear sweet Mom, these tiresome days will not last forever. The stresses of having young children are only temporary. Praise the Lord! Tell the Lord today if you are struggling. Seek his strength and support. He desires to help you in your time of need. Don't get discouraged. Brighter days are ahead. You can do this.
  17. Yes, Mommy Makes Mistakes Too Moms, lets face it, we make mistakes. Let me share a few: 1. After telling your children to be careful with their drinks and keep them in the kitchen, you spill your drink all over the living room floor. 2. You want your child to get ready for school in a timely manner, but you cannot seem to get them to school on time, even if they dressed themselves just like you asked. 3. You raise your voice when you know you shouldn't. 4. You tell them you will do this or that "later." Later comes, but "this or that" doesn't. 5. You set a limit on how much TV they can watch, but you are tired because you stayed up too late watching your favorite shows. 6. You realize your son or daughter was telling the truth after you disciplined them. Over the past several years, I have had to humble myself many times before my children. At first, I would wallow in my mistakes (which is what Satan wants us to do.) It is difficult to admit to anyone, especially your children, that Mommy makes mistakes too. Fortunately, I have come to realize, through my mistakes, that I have a great opportunity to teach my children how to admit their mistakes, the importance of repenting from their mistakes, to do their best to correct their mistakes, and to strive not to repeat it. Although I am not proud of my mistakes, I want my children to realize they are not alone in their struggles to do what is right. Mommy understands what they are going through. I want them to come to me and know that I will always love them. Don't allow Satan to tell you that you are not a good mom or that you don't know what you are doing. Look to God for direction and guidance and forgiveness when you mess up. Ask him to help you turn these situations into "teachable moments" for your children. Just as you love your children when they make mistakes, God loves you as well. He will never leave you. He will always help you. He will always love you.
  18. Bagama't di namumunga ang puno ng igos at hindi rin namumunga ang mga ubas, kahit na maantala ang pamumunga ng olibo at walang anihin sa mga bukirin, kahit na mamatay lahat ang mga tupa at mawala ang mga baka sa kulungan, magagalak pa rin ako at magsasaya, dahil si Yahweh ang Diyos na magliligtas sa akin. Habakuk 3:17‭-‬18 Marami mang pagsubok ang ating nararanasan sa ngayon,mga pangyayaring nakakagulat,nakakalungkot at nakakatakot,Patuloy parin tayong magalak sa Kanyang presensiya,Huwag manlupaypay sa hamon ng buhay,Patuloy na magtiwala sa Kanyang kapangyarihan ,that every problem has a solution,that every sorrow has an end,Lahat ng kalungkutang ito ay may kapalit na kasiyahan.We must continue to pray for our extra strength,for our family,relatives,churchmates and friends.Patuloy man tayong inuulan ng pagsubok,gawin nating payong ang panalangin.Umasa at ipagkatiwala ang ating buhay sa Diyos na Siyang may control ng lahat.Patuloy nating purihin,dakilain,ang Kanyang pangalang Jesus the king of all kings,God of all Gods.Amen.
  19. Salamat po sa pag apppreciate God bless po! Welcome po sa inyo! God bless?
  20. Webster's 1828 American Dictionary of the English Language defines potential as "existing in possibility, not in act." Potential cannot manifest without form. Like concrete it must have something to be poured into, something to give it shape and make it useful. To develop potential properly you must have a plan and pray over that plan, you must have a purpose, and you must be doing something. Many people are unhappy because they aren't doing anything to develop their potential. In fact, many of them never develop their potential because they don't do anything except complain that they're not doing anything! If you want to see your potential developed to its fullness, don't wait until everything is perfect. Do something now. Start laying your hand to whatever is in front of you. You cannot start at the finish line. You must start at the beginning like everybody else.
  21. You know you are a mom when: - Your alarm is set for twelve a.m., three a.m., six a.m., and nine a.m. - You cannot remember the last time you took a shower. - Your shirt, around the shoulder area, has some type of food on it. - Laundry is an everyday activity, but folding it is not. - The socks on your feet don't match and your shirt is on inside out. - You are eating chicken nuggets, macaroni and cheese, or pizza-again! - You tell yourself, "I know I just picked that up." - The theme songs to Barney, Clifford, and the movie Cars will not get out of your mind. - "No" is the most common word used in your home - by both mom and child. But you also know you are a mom when: - Three a.m. is one of the most special moments of the day. - You look into the bedroom when all is quiet and you are certain there is an angel sleeping there. - Your heart melts when that sweet little voice says, "I love you, Mommy." - Laughter fills your home. - Your kiss is the only thing that can make a boo-boo better. - Hearing your child sing brings you joy and a smile. - Your fridge is covered with special crafts, photos, and award ribbons. - You cry on the first day on kindergarten. - You can't wait for three ¥o clock to get here. Being a mom can be a bit overwhelming and tiring at times, but thankfully, there are moments that make it is all worth it. Take a little time to write down your happiest and most exciting motherhood moments. The next time you are feeling weary or discouraged, take it out and read it. Sometimes, all you need to get through the rough times is a reminder of the happy ones.. Happy Mothers Month!
  22. The Blessing of Friendship Whether you are sharing exciting news, needing advice on a tough situation, or just chatting about nothing, our friends are there for us. We love our husbands and we adore our children, but as women, we need other like-minded individuals who can relate to us in a way no one else can. We are fortunate when God blesses us with these special people. Over the past few years, especially now that I have young children, I have come to realize how special my close friends really are. I need them in my life and I would be very lonely without them. I understand how important it is to make time for them, no matter how busy I get with my day-to-day responsibilities. Just like I need my earthly friends in my life, I need my eternal and best friend, my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ even more. Unfortunately, I often forget to turn to him when I have exciting news to share or hardships I need help with. I imagine Jesus sitting by the phone or maybe looking at his e-mail account and wondering why I haven't contacted him. Just like my girlfriends, he wants me to reach out to him. He wants to rejoice with me when I have good news, and he wants to cry with me and hold me when I am discouraged and sad. Jesus, more than anyone, understands everything I am going through, no matter how big or how small. I am so thankful God has given me such wonderful friends here on earth. I pray you have been blessed with special people you can turn to in the good and bad times. But I am most thankful we can share the "best friend" anyone can have in this world. I am going to give him a call today. I hope you will too!
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